When in Poland, Do as the Poles Do…

Oct 10, 2015
3 min read

By Justyna Bien

Poland, like every country in the world, has its own etiquette and it is important to know it if you are visiting this country.

The first thing you need to be able to do is to identify a restroom (toilet). Public restrooms have the letters “WC” on the door. A triangle sign means it is a restroom for men and circle means it is a restroom for ladies. Often you will need to pay to use the restroom (about 50 cents to a dollar), not only for public toilets but also those in bars and restaurants.

- Remember: a circle is for ladies and a triangle is for men

Unlike in Illinois, in Poland you can smoke in (some) restaurants and bars but only in separate smoking areas. Smoking at bus stops or train stations is not allowed.

Drinking in public places (parks, beaches, etc.) is illegal as well, but it is acceptable to go outside of a bar or club just to smoke with a glass or bottle.

Never call someone by their first name until the person tells you it is OK to do so. Moreover, never use first names when speaking with a teacher, your boss, an older person or a person with authority. Always address a person with the title “Pan” (Mr.) or “Pani” (Mrs.) and use their last name. At parties and social meetings your host will introduce you to those present, usually starting with the women and then the men.

In most Polish homes and even some museums, you should take your shoes off and you will be provided with slippers. If someone invites you to their home, be punctual and prepare to eat and drink a lot. Polish people are known for their overwhelming hospitality so don`t be surprised if the dining table is covered with cold cut meats, appetizers, salads, pickles, cakes, fruits, and of course coffee and tea. Don’t refuse to try at least a bit of everything because if you don’t it can be viewed as impolite or even as an insult. Rye and potato vodka is a traditional Polish liquor and the host usually offers the first toast (“na zdrowie”- cheers). Vodka is served in small shot glasses and it is appropriate to swallow the contents in one gulp (no sipping!).

In Poland we also have a tradition of welcoming guests with bread and salt. This custom is practiced during weddings and when you are welcoming an authority figure (politician or other important guest).

When you are visiting a Polish home it is polite to bring some gift such as flowers, quality sweets or liquor for the hostess.

Polish people are kindhearted and show respect to senior citizens and disabled people by offering their seats to the elderly or pregnant women.

An old-fashioned custom is to kiss a lady on the hand when greeting her, however the young generation doesn’t practice this courtesy anymore.

These are some examples of Polish etiquette. It is good to keep these things in mind if you want to avoid misunderstandings and mistakes that can be unpleasant for you. Polish etiquette is closely connected with our culture. Polish culture, traditions and customs are part of our identity and are important values, passed on from one generation to the next.

- Images of Olsztyn, Poland by Paulina (September of 2011)